Gratitude Defined
Currently a riot of voices hawks in all available media resources the benefits of the attitude of gratitude. So enthusiastic is the hawking that it might be difficult to hear a different voice offering a different perspective of gratitude.
The popular perspective hawked in media is a psychological one. It's a theme of Positive Psychology. As such it is mind-based; that is, it is based on our self-talk and mental images.
The perspective I offer here is spirit-centered. In my view, our emotions are characteristics of our spirit (that which makes alive) rather than our minds (our cognitive function). So, gratitude as an emotion rather than an attitude is primarily a thumological rather than psychological concern.
How Gratitude Feels
Gratitude radiates as warmth outward from the center of our chest, our heart. It is our spirit's full-bodied pleasure of a desire fulfilled and a need relieved that we could not fulfill for ourselves.
The desire fulfilled could be as simple as an itch on our back that we could not scratch ourselves that someone scratched for us and relieved the need. It could be a flat tire changed, a bill paid, a meal provided, an organ donated, CPR provided, or any other need met that we could not meet for ourselves.
Gratitude is our spirit's response of relief due to the fact that it continues to be in us, giving us life.
Gratitude of spirit can inspire a sigh of relief, tears of heart-felt gladness, a beaming smile, a happy dance, hugs, and verbal expressions of "Thank you!", "Thank you so much!", "You saved my life!", or "How can I ever repay you!"
Mild to Intense Gratitude
Depending on the desire fulfilled and need met, our gratitude can range from being mild to intense. Our spirit's response to having an itch scratched might well be milder in comparison to being revived by CPR.
Acute and Chronic Gratitude
Our gratitude can arise immediately, even as our need is being met. It can also dissipate as quickly if something unpleasant intervenes.
With a heighten awareness of how much we depend on a multitude of interconnected living beings to sustain our lives, it is at least possible for us to experience an ongoing feeling of gratitude.
Part 2 will discuss mind- and experience-based, acute and chronic, and life-denying and life-affirming gratitude
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